My email from yesterday about being a “spectator” vs. being a “doer” seemed to hit home with a lot of people…
So let’s dig into it more…
Cause you’ll find “spectators” in pretty much every niche out there.
Case in point…
A few months ago my buddy Joe (who’s a dating coach) mentioned to me that he has guys who come on his bootcamps who “know” more than he does about how to talk to women.
So these guys “know” exactly what to say when you approach a woman…
They “know” the questions to ask that will spike her attraction…
They “know” how much flirting you should do versus how much deeper conversation you should have…
They “know” the perfect words to say to get her to take your number…
They “know” all this.
And if you put ’em in a seminar room, they could probably teach this to other guys too.
So from the outside, it looks like they “know” a lot.
But here’s the thing…
If you took these guys out to a bar and told them to go talk to women, they would struggle.
Why?
Cause what they “know” is all based on what they’ve read and what they’ve seen on Youtube…
They haven’t actually put in the work of talking to thousands of women like my buddy Joe has.
So they’re not actual “doers”…
They’re just spectators.
And there’s a big difference between the two.
Cause a “doer” has real, boots on the ground experience…
They’ve put in the reps…
And they’ve done it enough times that they’ve seen damn near every situation come up…
And because of that…
They have a good idea of what works (and what doesn’t work).
And this holds true whether we’re talking about meeting women, learning to play the guitar, or writing emails.
The spectators might talk a big game…
But the “doers” will always win in the end.
Cause the best results come from “doing”.
So my advice?
Don’t be a spectator.
Be a doer.
I know that’s a very simple idea…
But it’s one that can make you a lot of dough if you follow it.
So keep it in mind.
And enjoy your Tuesday…
– Justin
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